Content Moderation for Dating Sites

Content Moderation for dating sites is essential for a safe dating experience. If you have used HingeTindereHarmonyThursday or Match.Com you will know all these apps and websites allow you to connect with different people and “compatible” matches from all around the world.

Since COVID lockdowns the rules of social engagement have changed. We find ourselves connecting and interacting online more and more. Gone are the days you walk into a bar and an attractive person approaches you and offers to buy you a drink. Now we live in a world of algorithms, likes, swipes, direct messaging and “thank you, next”.

While some of us (of a certain age) may miss the days of traditional courtship, the internet has opened up a whole new world of possibilities to meet people you may have never encountered in your everyday life.

For those who dreaded the uncomfortable and sometimes mortifying prospect of approaching a complete stranger to ask for their number, we now find ourselves liberated and able to semi-qualify and approach a number of people all at once.

However, with all new tech advancements and moving our lives to a virtual world, there are dangers and pitfalls. Increasingly users are falling prey to scammers, catfishers, hackers and other unsavoury individuals.

What are the common content moderation needs for dating sites?

Here at Checkstep, we know only too well the problems dating sites and their users encounter.

Research conducted by Checkstep shows the top three concerns for dating platforms where:

  1. Fake profiles and spam accounts (issues with scammers and underage users);
  2. Improper behaviour and sharing of uninvited sexually explicit messages and images;
  3. Fraudulent and immoral behaviour like swindling, catfishing and sexploitation (including sharing of sensitive information and PII).

Without proper moderation and active community reporting, these problems can soon get out of hand and result in customer churn and reputational crisis.

What does content moderation mean for dating sites?

Content moderation involves checking images, videos, text and audio shared by members, users or followers of a specific online community. This can include dating sites, social media networks, gaming platforms, streaming services, marketplaces, forums, review sites, online community groups and more.

The main function of an online dating app or site is to assist people in making new connections online. One of the biggest issues with apps and services developed for entertainment and social networking is the difficulty platforms have in judging a person’s intentions prior to them joining the site.

In these circumstances, moderation within the dating industry means closely observing user activities, along with the user information and posts shared with others across the platform or service.

When thinking about your approach to mass moderation, there are several strategies you may like to consider.

Types of content moderation for dating sites

Pre-moderation

The content is checked for any violations in context to format prior to it being uploaded and made public. By using a particular set of guidelines for your site, AI automation and/or human moderators assess posts and have the authority to approve or reject them.

Post moderation

This is the opposite of pre-moderation. Post assessments of content are more concerned with real time interactions between community members, meaning user posts are published prior to them being analysed by AI or human moderators.

Distributed moderation

Distributed moderation is when a site engages users or members and empowers them to decide whether to remove content from the site.

Reactive moderation (community reporting)

Reactive moderation (also called community reporting) is as cost effective and as labour efficient as distributed moderation. It enables members to identify posts or user generated content (UGC) that are considered unsuitable for the website platform or community.

Automated moderation

As suggested, it uses automated functions (AI) to enhance the speed of reviewing everything that people share online. A basic example of automated moderation is the application of filters to expose specific keywords, phases or words that include or represent prohibited dialogue and themes.

Why moderate content?

Keeping your users safe through continual and proactive moderation is one of most significant factors when building trust, credibility and engagement on your platform. When a platform or dating site becomes a breeding ground for catfishing, swindling, scams, inappropriate user behaviour and reviews, it is likely that brand reputation will diminish and potential users will avoid using the platform altogether.

Benefits of content moderation for dating sites

Moderate and verify dating user profiles

Through a tech solution or through human moderation, dating sites can verify user profiles. This includes examining all the images, facts and personal information provided by new members to develop the profile. Moderation will verify the user’s age, check email addresses and usernames, alongside ensuring celebrity photos are not used. All this can contribute significantly to eliminating fake accounts and prevent situations of minors bypassing the security system of the site.

Detect and prevent catfishing attempts

Even though catfishing is inevitable and still ever present in online dating, it does not make it acceptable. Many people that register on dating websites still have genuine intentions and are serious about finding love and connections.

AI and human moderation coupled with community reporting can uncover fake profiles more efficiently and rapidly. Using automation alongside human moderation, dating sites can help to educate and mentor users on what to do if they encounter spam, scams or fake profiles and provide support services and guidance if they have fallen victim.

Scan the content of user generated posts

Several dating sites have forums that permit members to post on a variety of topics and interests. Regrettably, there are predators lurking around every corner.

These users often use alias accounts and are renowned for posting unsolicited and inappropriate images. These individuals who struggle to control their urges tend to post unpleasant comments and make other members feel uneasy. Using automated moderation (AI), dating sites can ensure a more precise and real-time review of all user posts and activities. This ensures that spam can instantly be filtered, while unsuitable content and profiles are identified and deleted.

Moderate content on dating direct messages

Alongside monitoring what users publicly share on the site, there is another area which is important to moderate. This is within the direct messages exchanged between users.

Aside from the catfishers and the scammers, hackers and malicious users turn to bullying and harassment. They torment other members through sending illicit comments, photos or threats.

Even conversations that once started off as pleasant and flirty can take a turn and devolve into hate speech, threats of violence, sextortion, and other harmful behaviour.

Messages can be pre-moderated using AI and provide prompts and warning notices to users before they send. Post moderation can delete or add a warning to the receiving party that the content may be harmful or sensitive in nature.

Bring more people to the site

Dating app moderation is not only a device for offence or defence against the risks of dating and online socialising. It can also benefit a business’s bottom line. A well-disciplined and managed online forum and social space creates a fun and appealing user experience. It reduces harm caused by spam content or negative user feedback caused by online trolls, catfishers and predators.

As more users visit the dating website or use the app, search engines will recognise and boost its rankings on the search results. Marketing strategies will be more effective and see a boost in engagement. Eventually, people will see the platform as safe and credible, which will improve brand recognition.

Key Takeaway for dating site content moderation

In the absence of a reliable set of dating moderation provisions, users are at greater risk of being catfished or exploited. The standard of user experience and created connections is also compromised.

Those dating sites scaling and finding it harder to rely on community reports and manual moderation should look at outsourcing moderation services.

Checkstep, is an organisation that offers AI and human moderation solutions to keep users safe. If you would like to find out more about content moderation for your dating site, contact us here.

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